"Love of our true self promotes the experience of feeling totally alive and free, expansive and joyful to all that is possible, fully receiving while feeling supported in a safe space to explore natures' delicious gift... the sensual loving you." Philip Millroy 2013
I invite you on a journey of self-discovery through Tantra: a beautiful ancient art, science and philosophy that teaches us how to use our potent life force of sexual energy into a healing, meditative and blissful energy that moves us through life with far less effort than we can imagine.
Once we rediscover our true sexuality and sensuality, once we realise our potential and learn to channel our sexual energy, our lives will become prosperous and abundant with love, health, happiness and empowerment.
Once we rediscover our true sexuality and sensuality, once we realise our potential and learn to channel our sexual energy, our lives will become prosperous and abundant with love, health, happiness and empowerment.
What are Realfeelings.net Private Sessions?
A private individual or couples session provides you with a special opportunity to learn the ancient skills of sensuality, Tantra and sacred sexuality through experiential sessions. Sessions are a combination of talking and experiential. We will first discuss the process before we begin, making sure you are comfortable and understand every step of the way.
Some individuals or couples prefer talking sessions only or alteast initially, that is okay. You can still address the many issues of sexuality, relationships, love, communication, behavioural patterns, sexual abuse, jealousy, overcoming fear, career, health, understanding masculine/feminine dynamics and finding life purpose.
Some individuals or couples prefer talking sessions only or alteast initially, that is okay. You can still address the many issues of sexuality, relationships, love, communication, behavioural patterns, sexual abuse, jealousy, overcoming fear, career, health, understanding masculine/feminine dynamics and finding life purpose.
Why do you do sessions mainly with women?
When men have harmed women so much on both personal and cultural levels, you may ask – why trust a man to heal these wounds? The answer is, in part, because some wounds caused by men can only be healed by men and vice-versa, wounding of by women of men is best healed by the feminine. The essence of the mature masculine is being present, focused and having clear intention. When doing this work, l sit in my masculine. I witness without judgement. Creating safety and holding the space in which healing can occur allows you to work through old and present emotions during your session.
Part of my role is simply to encourage, allow and bear witness to whatever past emotions arise in these sessions; without judgement or criticism, without taking it personally. Unexpected emotions can be released – grief, rage, pain – can all arise and be released in the safety of that space.
The essence of masculinity is presence – that deeply felt sense of awareness, strength, safety and trustability that comes from being grounded and focused when a man is fully in his masculine. Being witnessed and affirmed in this healing by a masculine presence can not only heal these wounds but awaken the divine feminine which resides in every woman.
Part of my role is simply to encourage, allow and bear witness to whatever past emotions arise in these sessions; without judgement or criticism, without taking it personally. Unexpected emotions can be released – grief, rage, pain – can all arise and be released in the safety of that space.
The essence of masculinity is presence – that deeply felt sense of awareness, strength, safety and trustability that comes from being grounded and focused when a man is fully in his masculine. Being witnessed and affirmed in this healing by a masculine presence can not only heal these wounds but awaken the divine feminine which resides in every woman.
Is receiving a tantric or Yoni Massage considered cheating on my partner?
Only you can decide if you are emotionally and physically comfortable with this type of physical session, for yourself. There is no sexual contact with the masseuse, as he is fully clothed and treats all of his sessions and clients with professionalism and respect, as would any other masseuse with given permission to touch your body. Tantric or Yoni Massage is a spiritual and physical therapeutic release of emotions, tensions, and is also educational for the receiver. Yoni massage is not actually designed to pleasure you, but is a common outcome. Each woman has different needs, and experiences different emotions during the session, resulting in different outcomes and feelings for everyone.
I feel having a de-armouring session may be considered cheating on my partner, is it?
Be assured working on your own emotions and feelings in a therapeutic setting is far from being unfaithful to your partner. All de-armouring (the release of past emotions held in the fascia tissue of the body as long-term tension) processes are conducted with your full consent and I talk you through every step. You have the chance to say "No" or "Stop" at any time, and are encouraged to voice your feelings. Whilst it allows you more scope without your partner present during the session, I am happy to meet with them to openly discuss aspects of the session with you both. Openness is the key to successful healing. Feel free to talk to me about any personal concerns at any time.
Your commitment
I am dedicated to supporting your overall wellbeing. I want you to reach your maximum potential from your individual or couple session, for this reason I ask that when you come to your session its with an open mind. You will gain so much more from the session by making a commitment to be real with yourself and having a willingness to 'step out of your box' to new experiences in your life. The more powerfully you show up for your experience, the more we are able to assist you.
Why is the initial session a talking session?
Your initial visit is always a 90 minute talking session. This is where the ground rules and boundaries are discussed and set. During the session you can expect to talk about confidentiality, your sexual history, your past relationships, your health and family background and general life issues.
In this way, the initial session is more than anything about information-gathering and developing a therapeutic relationship between us. Although real and meaningful issues are often discussed and worked on even at this early stage. This sets the scene (reasons and emotional involvement) for the physical bodywork session, after all there is purpose to a de-armouring session
In this way, the initial session is more than anything about information-gathering and developing a therapeutic relationship between us. Although real and meaningful issues are often discussed and worked on even at this early stage. This sets the scene (reasons and emotional involvement) for the physical bodywork session, after all there is purpose to a de-armouring session
How about ongoing sessions?
Although it is true that every session is different, a typical session falls into two parts. I normally begin by reviewing where we are and what progress has been made, and what has happened, since the previous session. We then might spend more time exploring and understanding the issue or problem. This exploration is an interactive and relatively informal process - we work together, asking questions, discussing possibilities, reflecting on the situation, and so on.
When we are clearer as to where we are and what we are dealing with, then we employ the particular approach or approaches required to address it. Often a number of techniques will be outlined and we choose the one that we agree is best for you. This may be a talking session, experiential session or a combination of both.
Throughout the session we always endeavour to proceed at a pace that you are comfortable with, while at the same time being aware that sometimes sessions need to have some challenge in order to be effective. The number of sessions varies greatly from person to person, some gain from just two and others may take advantage of six or more to reach their desired outcome
When we are clearer as to where we are and what we are dealing with, then we employ the particular approach or approaches required to address it. Often a number of techniques will be outlined and we choose the one that we agree is best for you. This may be a talking session, experiential session or a combination of both.
Throughout the session we always endeavour to proceed at a pace that you are comfortable with, while at the same time being aware that sometimes sessions need to have some challenge in order to be effective. The number of sessions varies greatly from person to person, some gain from just two and others may take advantage of six or more to reach their desired outcome
What about support?
It is totally normal to feel some fear when opening up a very important and sacred part of your being. Relax in knowing that I am truly here to support you in every way and a 15 minute phone de-breif is included with each experiencial session
What happens in an individual or couple's session?
Individual sessions may be either a talking session and or a experiential session. Sessions can vary from gentle to dynamic and evolve differently depending on your individual needs and desires. We honour your commitment and courage to create this opportunity for introspection and transformation. Whether or not you have a clear idea of what you desire going into your session, as you change, deepen, and explore, your boundaries will always be honored and respected.
Like individual sessions, couples sessions begin with a discussion, finding out what each of your priorities are for the session and how you would like to improve your connection. Some couple's prefer to only have talking sessions. Other couple's prefer to go further and have experiential sessions.
After the discussion in a experiential session, a Tantric massage or sensual ritual demonstration might be shown, so that you can both practice these ancient sensual rituals on each other. You will both deepen your way of connecting and loving more sensually and fully. A big part of the experiential sessions is learning how to meet each others needs in a way that does not take away from your needs
Like individual sessions, couples sessions begin with a discussion, finding out what each of your priorities are for the session and how you would like to improve your connection. Some couple's prefer to only have talking sessions. Other couple's prefer to go further and have experiential sessions.
After the discussion in a experiential session, a Tantric massage or sensual ritual demonstration might be shown, so that you can both practice these ancient sensual rituals on each other. You will both deepen your way of connecting and loving more sensually and fully. A big part of the experiential sessions is learning how to meet each others needs in a way that does not take away from your needs
Will I have to do things that I don't want to do? Can I say no?
In each session I welcome and support you to say NO. You will be encouraged to reclaim your power. This is done in part by being able to define your own boundaries. Through processes which will connect you with what feels right for you in each moment, you will be able to clearly define and state your boundaries – and know that they will be respected. This simple exercise allows us to reclaim our power in being able to say NO! This increases self-confidence and in itself can heal wounds from our past.
Who will you be seeing for your session and what is their commitment to you?
I am available for talking and experiential sessions with women, men and couples of all sexual orientations.
I am fully committed to providing you with a space that is safe and sacred, where you can grow, release and transform. All sessions are private, fully confidential and are designed to nurture, awaken, and help you grow. You will learn tools that you can use in your everyday life and relationships. Within a safe, nurturing environment you can relax and open. You can release what no longer serves you, such as old limiting beliefs, fears, and blocks. As you open fully to your essence you will learn how to circulate and channel these newly awakened energies in ways that support you in living a more integrated life.
I am fully committed to providing you with a space that is safe and sacred, where you can grow, release and transform. All sessions are private, fully confidential and are designed to nurture, awaken, and help you grow. You will learn tools that you can use in your everyday life and relationships. Within a safe, nurturing environment you can relax and open. You can release what no longer serves you, such as old limiting beliefs, fears, and blocks. As you open fully to your essence you will learn how to circulate and channel these newly awakened energies in ways that support you in living a more integrated life.
We already have a good relationship, can you help us spice it up a little?
Yes. Adding elements like presence, breath, energetic full body orgasm and elements of 'Slow Sex' etc, will create a brand new tool box filled with delicious love making ideas for couples and also very helpful for singles as well. The 3-hour couples sessions are designed to deliver in this area (singles 2hr session).
Some of the topics your individual or couple's Realfeelings.net session might cover:
Female Libido, how to increase your sex drive.
Pain or numbness during sex.
Not being able to orgasm or having to work to orgasm.
Male premature ejaculation or erection problems.
About deepening your awareness of who you are when in relationship and how to shift old patterns of behaviour.
Becoming more aware of and increasing the flow of sexual energy through your body.
Becoming multi-orgasmic.
Coaching for men and women on dating and relating with each other.
De-mystifying the G spot and the female prostate gland.
Developing mature masculine and feminine polarities within yourself and your relationships.
Discern what is true for you in each moment rather than being caught in the past.
Discover what triggers your fear responses in relationships and how to respond rather than react to situations.
Finding your purpose.
Issues you been experiencing in your relationship?
Living with more presence and clarity in your daily life.
Sexual problems.
Tantric sexual healing.
Understanding relationship communication and dynamics.
Understanding why you repeat the same kind of relationships over and over.
Understand your sexuality more completely, for example learning about full body energetic orgasm and female ejaculation.
What an experiential Realfeelings.net session might include:
Breath work, meditation and visualisation.
Cellular memory release techniques.
Shantam Nityama Nitvana Bodywork Full body energetic orgasm.
Lingam activation and reclamation.
Psychosexual somatic bodywork for releasing trauma.
Psychotherapeutic techniques.
Sacred spot healing ritual (available for men and women).
Subtle energy de-armouring.
Tantric massage.
Women's initiation (only available to women that Philip has done sessions with previously).
Tantra Yoni massage
Cellular memory release techniques.
Shantam Nityama Nitvana Bodywork Full body energetic orgasm.
Lingam activation and reclamation.
Psychosexual somatic bodywork for releasing trauma.
Psychotherapeutic techniques.
Sacred spot healing ritual (available for men and women).
Subtle energy de-armouring.
Tantric massage.
Women's initiation (only available to women that Philip has done sessions with previously).
Tantra Yoni massage
Will I have home practice?
Yes, you will have individual and or partnered exercises to do at home. These will be tailored to suit your needs and situation.
